You are overwhelmed and looking for a family

If you reached this blog because you are a Mom or/and a Dad and looking for a home for your special needs little one;

 If your child or children are

  already born or

maybe you just got news from one of your prenatal tests that you are expecting a little one that you love so much but are overwhelmed with the thought of being a mommy or a daddy to a special angel…

First of all, I am so sorry ….

but know, coming to this page was not a mistake. God loves you and loves your baby too. There is a plan and a purpose for their life and what is happening right now in your life. Thank you for looking at adoption as a possible choice for your little one(s).

Let me reassure you…there are families that would feel blessed to be there forever  for your baby or child

no matter the diagnosis.

If this is YOU, contact me at my personal email : swissprimel@verizon.net and I WILL help you find the family that you imagine…

I am not an agency, not a facilitator, not a professional…just a mom, and we will speak mom to mom…

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National Down Syndrome Adoption Network has a great need for FAMILIES

I was young once, I was insecure once, I could not breathe once…

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We were approved for special needs placements right from the beginning…but you see, in my head I had the view of what child I thought that meant… maybe drug exposed, maybe delayed, maybe diabetic… maybe deaf… but…

The phone rang (this was before cell phones were common) I can remember pacing back and forth as the worker asked if we would consider… a baby in Pittsburgh, born last weekend with Down syndrome… they had one family but they had just had a placement of another baby with Down syndrome not even three months ago and it was their third placement in two years…

My mind absolutely raced… I had not planned for this…my other brain was saying well the mom did not plan for this either… and I was like … I have no idea where to begin, who do I contact for a doctor? What would I do for therapies, would our health insurance cover the baby… and on and on.. Then that calmer brain said, come on you could do this.. And one side of my brain won… We said, No.. I thought someone else might be better who knew how to DO IT!!  Later of course we had the chance again.. and we said YES 🙂 Josiah is so precious to us… so very precious. Do not let fear RULE!!

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That decision has haunted me, because, I could have done it! I just did not have confidence in ME… in US!!  I just had no way to contact a tribe!! FB was not a thing, I knew only one person who had a child with DS.

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Today you all are so very fortunate to have the world at your fingertips, to have advice from parents who are eager to help…raise a child with Down syndrome.

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Stephanie Thompson, the director of the National Down Syndrome Adoption Network NEEDS families!! If you live in these states, she has NO families in her registry!! If she is contacted by an expectant mom, or a mom who has given birth…or an agency who needs a family for a baby with Down syndrome; she has to show them someone from another state, and sometimes the hospital stays for these little ones are LONG and being in the same state is a PLUS for that and, also, no ICPC and third… subsidy is much easier to apply for!! So can you believe it, these states have NO FAMILIES registered! 

Connecticut     Hawaii     Delaware     Illinois     Kansas     Kentucky     Maine     Massachusetts     Michigan     Mississippi   Missouri     Montana     Nebraska     Nevada     New Hampshire          New Mexico        North Carolina     North Dakota     Oklahoma     Oregon     Rhode Island     South Carolina     South Dakota     Washington     Wisconsin     Wyoming

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Other states have at least one family, but more are needed, because most families who adopt children with Down syndrome are older ,experienced families; that is not a BAD thing, but sometimes, the expectant families like to see a variety of families!! So if you are on the registry already, Stephanie appreciates each and every one of you!!

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There is a SPECIAL need for families who are not gender specific and especially open to infant BOYS whose fees are over $10,000. Although the NDSAN charges NO fees… ZERO for their work… agencies and lawyers DO usually… Those fees, Stephanie cannot control and they can have quite a wide range.

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IF you are NOT homestudy ready and wish to find an agency, also contact Stephanie who can give you the list she has of agencies in YOUR state that are experienced in special needs placements!! This is so very important, as special needs placements can be much more time consuming and difficult!

To register as a family open to the placement of

infants or children with Down syndrome:

PLEASE contact, Stephanie Thompson at NDSAN,

there are ZERO fees to register, ZERO fees for their assistance!!

www.ndsan.org   or stephanie@ndsan.org

Please share! And thanks so much for saying YES!! , Esther

 

Family needed for a Baby boy due November 2017

Thank you all so much!! A family has been chosen!!

For some reason, it is always harder to find families for boys… I can remember when Ray and I first decided to adopt, Ray had two daughters to his first wife, and together we had three BOYS. The boys lived with us so, of course the assumption was that we would want to adopt a girl…boy were they surprised when we said it did not matter, and, in fact, we would PREFER a boy 🙂 I never understood what a rarity that was until I started helping in the adoption field… A family for a boy is harder than a girl… and a boy that is not CAUCASIAN is even harder…shame on us…
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A family is needed for  an African American baby boy due in November 2017 in Georgia. The Momma wants a family with at least one prior child.  Expectant mother was reviewing profiles and the conference call with the family she liked did not go well, so she wishes to see additional families!!   Must be home study and financially ready. 

 

Budget:

Placement Fee: $15,000.00

Georgia social counseling $500.00

Total: $ 15,500.00

A Bundle of Joy Networking & Referral Fee $2,000 (Due at time of match) 

Legal expense is separate and must be negotiated with the attorney; it can range $5000+

 Contact information has been removed because a family has been found!! This situation has been matched! 

Thank you all for sharing, and I KNOW by now you know … Please, please pray for the momma, that she has clarity as she decides what is best for her little one to come. Pray for the families who apply.

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Baby Boy due with Down syndrome

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An agency in Texas is seeking a family open to a Down Syndrome Asian baby BOY due in December 2017.  Birth family is placing together. They are parenting two other children and do not feel they are capable of parenting this little boy. There are no fees due to Hands to Hold for this opportunity.

Agency fees are $18,500 for everything but finalization. Not open to families in New York.

If you are a homestudy ready family open to this little boy please email Jamie at littlehands@handstohold.com

Pray for the expectant family and for the family chosen,

 please share !!

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Oh FRIENDS, URGENT NEED for a special family

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UPDATE 8/4/2017 BABY IS MATCHED!! THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH!! SPECIAL ANGELS ADOPTION, is looking  for a homestudy ready family for a baby boy born with a heart issue and a brain issue. This precious little guy is of East Indian descent and is currently in a mid-western state.

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HE URGENTLY NEEDS A FAMILY : He is about to be released from the hospital and a family is  needed with him ASAP.

Fees will be around $12,000.

Thank you all so much for loving these little ones and SHARING or APPLYING if you are eligible and the situation matches your family. Without YOU many of these children would not have found their family!! So, Thanks again! Share, APPLY, and PRAY for the families making  very difficult heart choices.

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Baby Boy born, Immediate need for a family

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Precious bundle…Precious little one…Born in June.

He was born with a brain malformation. This precious baby boy is African American.  His momma decided to lovingly  place him into a family that is in New England or in an East Coast state so that she can have an open adoption with yearly visits (Not Open to the state of NY due to NY adoption laws).

Fees for this adoption will be $14,000.

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If you are interested in more information, please contact:

Sara: sara@specialangelsadoption.org

Thank you so much! And once again, please pray for this little baby who has some health issues, for his birth momma, and of course for his future adoptive family to find him !!

Without you sharing this blog would not reach the families who need to see it!! So please share.

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LDS family needed immediately for a sibling group!

 Update 7/20/17 at 8:00pm….MANY, MANY responses!! No more families are needed!! Thanks so very much for SHARING!! I will update when a family is chosen!!

Oh my HEART!! I LOVE my sons!! Someone is going to be TRIPLE Blessed!!

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A forever family is being sought for a sibling group of 3 boys (ages 2, 4 years and 8 months). The boys are Caucasian and reported healthy. They are currently being raised by their maternal grandmother. They are seeking a younger family from the Mormon/LDS faith.

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The religious preference is a must!

Fees are $16,800 and $3,000-$4,000 for legal (includes finalization).

Contact information purposefully removed as enough families have inquired, and the agency is busy replying and screening the interested families!!

If you are NOT the family for these precious boys, please SHARE !! I know there is a perfect family just for them!! Please also pray for the boys, the grandmother and the family that is chosen. Transitions are CRUCIAL, and I am so glad they are being placed together, aren’t you??

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Eight year old girl needs to find her family ASAP

As I sit here looking at this picture of a beautiful little eight year old girl with glossy brown hair, I am imagining who is waiting for her… I know there is a family with a hole in their lives that is just the right shape for this precious girl, made in the image of God, who belongs somewhere…is it with you?

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Jxxxxxx lives in the state of Washington and the agency has been trying to find a match for her for THREE MONTHS! That is way, way too long…Her family wishes to place her as she is in danger of being placed in CYS custody.

She is being cared for by her father who is doing the best he can as a single divorced parent, as the momma has some struggles that have resulted in her losing custody.  He has been parenting her alone since she was four years old.

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She has just completed the first grade and LOVES the outdoors and camping!  She is artsy and loves crafts too!!  Reading is another favorite pastime! Due to her difficult history, none of it her fault, it is recommended that NO younger children should be in the home. The agency is open to both married and single parent families.

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Medical records, pictures and much more information is available through the agency. Agency will help with application with SSI, and adoption subsidy, as it is possible she may qualify.

YOU MUST have a current homestudy and be ready to travel as a placement is desired ASAP !!

If interested, please contact: Hope Embraced Adoption Agency :

berniece.hopeembracedadoptions@gmail.com

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Join me in praying  that she finds a home that is PERFECT for her and that she can bloom and grow and thrive…and love and be loved… If she is not your daughter, please share so she can find her family!!

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URGENT please share!!

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URGENT, Agency is meeting with the birth mother TODAY!!

A Bundle of Joy needs families open to a full Hispanic baby boy due July 7th. There is some drug use. Mom is currently on methadone and was diagnosed with bipolar in 2008 after her brother died.
Fees 25,500 agency
3,500 legal-due at placement
Please reply to :

Martine H. Powell, M.A.
Senior Adoption Advisor
A Bundle of Joy Adoption Networking & Referral
131 Brooks Edge Drive
Winston-Salem, NC 27107
(336) 770-2675 Phone ext. 1
(336) 585-7016 Fax

Thanks so very much.  More information is available to interested families but this is an URGENT request!!

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Needed Arkansas Family

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A Bundle of Joy is needing an Arkansas family !!

A Bundle of Joy is in need of families from Arkansas interested in a full African American infant due in November. Expectant mother would like some openness and has a preference for an Arkansas family.  The agency social worker is working on completing the interview process and social summary.

 For more details.




Contact Martine: 

 via email www.bundleofjoyreferral@gmail.com

or by phone (336) 770-2675 ext. 1

If this is not your situation, please share!! Thank you all so much for reading and sharing my blog. We all need to pray that the right family is found for this situation!!

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Home desperately needed for an 8 year old Caucasian girl

Sugar and spice and everything nice,

That’s what little girls are made of…

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This little girl is being placed by her grandmother who freely admits she is not attached the way she should be to her. She was placed with grandma at age 2 1/2 by the state. This little one was drug exposed prenatally and grandma believes she would benefit from a full IEP evaluation for learning support.  She is not impulsive. She loves to draw! She also loves to do ANYTHING with anyone, she craves attention that grandma admits she does not give… This little one is socially behind, per her grandma, and does not have any close friends. She has some self protective mechanisms in place, such as zoning out, when she is given criticism or lengthy directions for a task. Grandma says doing anything with her makes her happy.

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She is completely functional and capable and, with the proper family who can give her affection and time that she is craving, she has awesome potential to set the world ablaze!!

There is some urgency with this situation, as the grandmother just cannot seem to love this little girl the way she deserves to be loved.

Family desired: 

  • No children or, if there are children, they should be older than this little girl so she can have lots of individual attention.
  • Must be homestudy ready
  • Live close enough to the state of Indiana, or be willing to maintain contact with grandmother and her sibling, who is also placed with the grandmother.

If you are interested, contact:

Inna Pekar at Kids First Adoption:

info@kidsfirstadoption.com

317-843-2300

And once again, thank you friends for sharing these situations and caring so much about the children and families affected by adoption. Lets pray that a family’s heart is drawn towards this little girl and they have a hole in their heart, shaped just for her to fill, and that they find this post and find her… Please share that they can find her…

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